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[quote=Anonymous]I've never been a hardcore "Rules" follower but in general have let men pursue me. It feels more exciting that way and besides, I would have the uncertainty of whether he really liked me or was being just being polite.

Anyway, in my current relationship I kind of threw all of that out of the window and dove in head first - hot, heavy, and unsustainable. We spent most nights together, called/texted all the time, etc. Last week he spearheaded, but I agreed with, deciding to slow down. There wasn't an indication he was no longer interested, simply that he needs more time to himself. (As do I.)

I feel like I gave too much of myself too quickly. Is it too late to reset the dynamic? We have a great time, great sex, lots of fun and good conversation. We seem to be compatible. I'd like to have a stable relationship with this guy.

I'm thinking I should be more of a "Rules" girl with him. Never initiate communication, be slow to respond, make him plan dates in advance (instead of, see you after work).

Would love to hear men's perspectives here. [/quote]

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