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[quote=Anonymous]I used to see her about once a month.

This year is different cause we don't have any other reasons to go at their place. Other than just visiting them I mean. 
Also we moved into a bigger place. In the past, they just slept at the hotel. Now they can sleep at our place. Sister in law came only once. That time with the poker game. So they could come more often like before, but I feel like maybe me threatening her to sleep at the hotel may have slowed them down in the idea of coming.

And I was also upset because when I say that we saw them once a month, I actually mean we only see HIS family once a month. I may have seen my own family 3 times last year... So this year we spent more time with my family. And we see them every  three months maybe?

So, yeah, I thought that maybe I should just suck it up. Because it's only a few times and boyfriend doesn't disagree. I just tell her no and that's all (well, for now... because I'm probably the only one who says no to her). We go back home and get back to our life.

Boyfriend backs me up.... I don't know. I mean, he totally agrees with me about her being annoying, but only because I point it out. If I don't say anything, since he's used to her attitude, it looks like he doesn't see anything wrong. I have to say "wow, I think her doing that was rude...." and he will say "ah?... ah now that you say that, I have to admit that indeed, that was rude"

What reassures me, is that he doesn't back her up if I say something. At least that's one good thing... I think

I think she was around 3 years old when she lost her father.[/quote]

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