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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who decided that you should buy a home? It sounds like he’s stalling or ambivalent. How long have you been married? Maybe he’s nervous about sinking all of “his” savings into it. What’s your financial arrangement? Have you combined? Who pays for what?[/quote] We mutually decided. He has been casually looking at listings over the past year, I however was the one who contacted the realtor. We combine 80% of our pay. He makes $120k and I earn 52k. I have student loan debt and less savings, he managed to save roughly $50k for a down payment and I’ll be contributing some as well, albeit not nearly that much. We’ve been married 1 year, living together for 3. He had the luxury of living at home rent-free prior to our relationship which is why he has saved so much money. I’ve been on my own since I was 16.[/quote]
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