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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you owe it yourselves and your daughter to give marriage counseling and  individual counseling a try.[/quote]

OP here: when I think of marriage counseling, I worry that they will ask me what my desired outcome for the current situation would be and I won't have an answer for them. How does individual counseling work? With the same counseller? Or each of us gets their own therapist?

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So you're afraid to go to counseling because you might have to try to clarify what you want??? Come on. That's exactly what you're doing here. It's just anonymous and you're not really held accountable.

Grow up and get some marriage counseling. Who knows what the end result will be. Do it for your daughter. She deserves to have two parents that are mature to do everything they can to keep her family in tact AND happy. And if the in tact part can't happen, then her parents will at least be in a better place to figure out how to co-parent in different households. [/quote]

I don't understand this total lack of maturity, connection or communication in this marriage - by both of you.
You currently do not have a marriage of any kind here. Yes, you should go to marriage counseling and try to reconnect or at least try to gain some communication skills that you can use while you raise your DD together.[/quote]

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