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[quote=Anonymous]No sex for the last 4 years since our daughter was born. DH is a great father and does a bulk of the childcare and housework all by himself. He has career frustrations. He used to be physically affectionate but his work worries went into high gear and there is very little touching. He has always been a teller. A lot of yelling when he is frustrated. We never had much sexual attraction, now it is non-existent. Married for 10 years, together for 15.

I am not entirely blameless. I had a rough time after childbirth, currently am contemplating a job change and stressed about it. I have a crush on my married coworker ( work with him only 2-3 times a month when necessary and otherwise avoid interacting with him). Guess I am emotionally cheating and realize it is because my needs are not being met.

I go through days when I wish things were better in my life and think of ways to fix things. Other days, I wish I had the courage to make a clean break and get a chance to start over with somebody else. Whenever I suggest a divorce, DH acts like I am crazy. I have considered marriage counseling but I think they will tell us to connect and have sex.

If you have been in a similar situation and managed to resolve it, do you have advice for me?[/quote]

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