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[quote=Anonymous]I received a message from a guy on an online dating site. Seemed like a decent guy (as far as one can tell from a profile) and so we arranged to meet up. As part of the logistics of that, I gave him my phone number and we texted a few text related to place, time and date. In the end, I had to cancel for a family emergency. We continued to text back and forth. Due to various life events, the times we can meet up at the moment are pretty infrequent and its been 3 weeks since the original planned meet and greet.

So for 3 weeks we have been texting multiple times a day...but it is the most mundane, small talk, how was your day type texting. We seem to have evolved into pen pals.

I am not sure why I am texting someone daily I have never met...and it hasn't turned even flirty. He really does seem like a normal, great guy based on our pen pal back and forth. we have a lot of common interests etc.

Am I just in some kind of old school courting or are we both just lonely and like having someone who checks in to say hi and good night or should i keep this up and maybe he ends up a friend or more...if I ever meet him?

I haven't done much online dating...is this normal?[/quote]

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