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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OP.  My DH has been medicated for 8 years (diagnosed as an adult).  It's not a cure-all.  It basically lets him function and be successful at his job.  It doesn't give him the discipline to plan his time, show up on time, make appointments I've asked him to make (for himself), or take care of personal business, etc.  He is kind, loving, intelligent, but I basically have to nag him about anything relating to our family or house.  And I don't like to nag.  My house is trashed because unless I pitch a fit, no one does anything.  They drop their crap in the floor then step over it a million times without noticing.  My car is filthy.  I do not like to go nuts and scream all the time, so I basically ignore it until I hit my wall.  And I don't really have an outlet, so here I am ranting on an anonymous board.  Thank you for reading.[/quote]

09:27 here.

I know! The mental load of planning and thinking for the whole family!

I am training my kids to clean up after themselves and help me with the house, since my husband could live in his filth without noticing and WILL NOT lift a finger in the house.
My son is very willing to help, but he too, doesn't notice a thing until it's pointed out to him.
I keep telling him he has to make an effort so he doesn't turn out like his father.
I also have to tell my daughter not to do her brother's share of the work.

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