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[quote=Anonymous]Divorce. It doesn’t get better. You’ll never have a partner, not now and certainly not if something goes really bad like you get cancer, and knowing that you are completely alone and can’t count on him to keep things together in the event you can’t will eat you alive. I say this as someone who has been married 10 years to someone with ADHD. Call it ADHD or garden variety Entitled White Herero Male Syndrome, but the result is the same- you have a spouse that does not care enough about you to get past their own discomfort to learn how to deal with their shit. FWIW, I find that if you treat the ADHD spouse like the teenager they are, you get better results. No one “doesn’t see” the garbage they are tripping over, they just don’t want to clean it up. You wouldn’t let a normal 15 year old get away with that, would you?[/quote]
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