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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was like this.  And was for decades.  I'm 50 now.  Emotionally abusive childhood.   However, she should listen to you when you say there is a problem, and she should try therapy.   [b]Tell her straight up that you don't think you can stay with her because of this.   Don't mince words.   It might clue her in. Or it might not.  And if it doesn't, cut and run[/b].[/quote]

This is spot on.  When you are dating someone seriously, even if you are in love, you have to think, can I deal with x  behavior for the next 20 years?  If the answer is no, it’s not fair to you or the other person to stay in that relationship when you know it wouldn’t lead to marriage and that’s what you or the other person is hoping for someday.  Or why would you stay when you knew it advance that you wouldn’t be happy? At some point that unhappiness will start to change who you are as a person and how you deal with things, usually not in a good way.

So be upfront and stay strong in what you know is the right course of action

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