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Reply to "When did you get over your spouse's affair? Or did you?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I understand, OP. It's almost three years later for me, and even with a lot of work on all sides, negative things he said to me still haunt me. I ask myself, if he could lie so convincingly all that time, and judge me and find me not good enough in so many ways, why should I believe in anything now? It's still a work in progress, and there's much worth saving. The main thing I do is to change my focus away from him. I have a lot to heal from, and a lot of things to work on to make myself and my life better. As long as he treats me extremely well, is positive and devoted, that's got to stand as evidence for him loving and wanting me. And if he ever appears not to, I'll walk away, because one huge second chance was enough. What I tell him (and myself) is "I'm not perfect, but I'm pretty all right, and if the person I'm with doesn't find me to their taste, let them go find someone else. I only want to be with someone who appreciates me and treats me well."[/quote]
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