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[quote=Anonymous]so I've been married to my wife for 15 years.  During that time, even when dating, I've had to push for sex more than once per week.  She's always been fit and attractive.  I'm not ugly but have always had more of an endurance athlete build - scrawny and not much muscle mass.  I've competed racing bicycles (road and mtb) for the last 8ish years.  As I'm getting older, long training hours on a bike just aren't realistic anymore and I've had to find a new, reasonably healthy interest.  I started lifting heavy in the gym 3 days a week and tracking my food using the Lose It iphone app.  I've managed to put on more muscle than I've ever had and whittled my stomach dow to a six pack.

Here are some of the things I've noted as changes:

-She' commenting almost daily about how I look.
- She keeps finding reasons to rub my chest or arms and make comments.
- Yesterday, when I got out of the shower, she dried me off from head to toe.
- She got on top of me the other night in bed and I wasn't sure if she was trying to initiate or not.  The next day she told me that she wanted me but our kid wasn't asleep and that we were doing it that night.  She NEVER initiates.
- If I'm doing something without my shirt she'll make a comment that I'm about to get licked.
- I'm catching her watching me when I'm changing.
- There used to never be a good time for sex and it needed to be scheduled (she's very type A).  Now, before we get out of bed in the morning she dry hump me and tell me that its too bad our kid is up.

So, these are just my observations but obviously I'm enjoying her interest in me.

Is my wife more visual than most and somehow I'm only just now discovering it after 15 years together?

Btw, I apologize if this post came off egotistical in any way.  I'm really crazy about my wife and am excited by this new trend!
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