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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you know your (and his) MBTI types? DH and I got in tons of ridiculous fights about little things just like this. We got an executive coach at work who focuses on personality types and how to use your strong traits to be a leader. I got DH to take it to and realized we are 100% opposites when it comes to things like planning. I need a plan, he needs to go with the flow or will follow my plan if it makes sense. Now when I ask him what the plan is, he usually says "take over the world" and then I start planning on the spot. If he has any objections he can make them as in piecing it together. It might be an interesting experiment for you. [/quote]

Thanks, I'll look into that. We actually both like to have a plan, or at least something to work off of, but the issue is that it always falls on me to make the plan. I've had a busy week and he has not, so I hadn't even thought about what we should do on Saturday until he brought it up last night. Everything is local, so it isn't a huge deal to figure out.

I just get frustrated when he gets more and more insistent with his "what is the plan?" questions. As though asking me louder and more frequently will automatically create a plan in my mind which I can then share with him. He doesn't make an effort to have any ideas of his own but he gets to refuse my ideas if he doesn't like them. So not only do I need to create a plan, it has to be specifically to his liking.

Yes, it all boils down to communication and clearly we need to work on that.

-OP[/quote]

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