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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you get asked this question way too many times? I've come to realize that he's really asking "What plan did [b]you[/b] make?" . If he asks "what is the plan?" and I respond "I don't know." then he just gets mad and keeps asking me over and over again.

We have a party to attend tomorrow, to which he has full access to the details in an email, but he still keeps asking me even though he has barely worked this week and has had plenty of time to play golf and go to the gym. It's driving me nuts.

What needs to be coordinated is what time our kids will be dropped off at my parents' house and where we will eat dinner beforehand.  I finally told him that since he needs a plan so badly and seems to be getting upset at me not having one ready to tell him that he can come up with the plan and let me know. Then he went to bed in a huff because he said I exploded on him when he started this up right when  I had sat down today for the first time since I got up at 4:30am. If telling him to make the plan is exploding on him I don't know what to say.

WTF. [/quote]

Wait, are you me? It drives me crazy too, OP. He always NEEDS to know and gets irritated if I don't have a plan. I am not a huge planner so unless we have a social commitment, I often don't have an answer.[/quote]

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