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[quote=Anonymous]OP, in my house it is the opposite.  I am concerned that DH's career is stalling out and I want to help him.  But that said, he does not blame me for this.  We have made decisions together.  I haven't forced him to do anything.  For his part, he made the decision to stay in a position at an organization where he has been stalled out in middle management for years.  Had he had more ambition before we moved to be closer to family, we may have had the means to remain in DC.  Now we are in a market where there is far more opportunity for me than for him.  I have expressed the willingness to re-locate again if necessary (I can literally get a job anywhere in the country), support him in starting his own business, etc.  He is not a victim, and I doubt you are either.

Own the decisions you've made, and if you want things to change, talk to your husband.  He can't read your mind and it sounds like you're letting things fester into resentment.  That's not fair to him and not good for your marriage.  [/quote]

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