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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You love and miss the man you thought he was. Not the actual man that he is. Mourn the man you thought you fell in love with. Therapy can help with this. [/quote] I'm not sure this is even OP's problem. I think she's mourning that he'll never be the man she wanted him to be. The problems she cited in her OP were that he was financially irresponsible and that she didn't trust him. Although she styled the "trust" issue as a problem on her end, it clearly isn't (unless I misread it and she meant that her husband never trusted her). She's tagging her DH for the breakdown of the relationship but then also wondering why he isn't doing anything to fix it. What's that saying -- when someone shows you who they are, believe them? [/quote]
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