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Reply to "If you felt like you lost yourself because of marriage and parenthood "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh cut the crap! You don't find yourself again because marriage and parenthood make you a different and hopefully a less ego-centric person. If you didn't consider this before you got married you shouldn't have gotten married. [/quote] So your entire life is about your kids? You don't do anything for yourself? Don't have any hobbies? There is a happy medium between going out and doing solo activities 3 nights a week and not doing anything unless it's family related. Neither of the extremes is healthy. Op, to answer your question...what were your interests before kids? How often do you get "me" time. Are you able to meet up with friends without your kids? When you and your friends or DH talk, do you have things to talk about other than kids? Introvert or extrovert? There are ways to find you again, but need to start with the basics of who you were before kids [/quote]
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