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[quote=Anonymous]Op here, I will admit. I talked to him but didn't mention that it's limp.

After about two weeks, I said how I noticed he started using his hands more in conversation. And that the only reason I wanted to mention it is that it seemed off; and that because he works with many clients over the course of a day, i wanted him to be aware. That it comes off as aggressive (sometimes it is aggressive, like pointing harshly, but then goes limp after the pointing).

He was like, really? Almost not believing me. And I said yeah, I've definitely noticed because I've known you for so long, and I've never seen that before.

Since then, because we had that conversation, I have pointed out a few times when he has done it in front of me. He sort of believes me.

Again, I've focused on the aggression part of it, the quick movements; and how I don't think it matches his speech. Like someone who moves their hands while taking, and it doesn't match up with what they're saying.

It's hard to tell someone you love that they're acting gay or bothering you. I've been living with it for a few months and it appeared last night again. We were just talking on the couch.

What would you think if your loved one that you've known a long time suddenly changes a conversational behavior? I don't want to break his confidence or 'accuse' him oddly...[/quote]

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