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[quote=Anonymous]My mother caught him in their bed at our house with one of his APs. She got in a physical fight with the AP and the place was wrecked. I came home from the last day of 6th grade to broken furniture, broken plates, glass everywhere, and the place a wreck. Another time, the AP was a close family friend. Her son was one of my few friends. I found out when my mom and the AP got in a huge argument and we could no longer go over to their house. A third time, the AP was a tenant who wrote my mom a letter of apology when she had an attack of conscience. I saw the letter.

So many times, so many APs. The result? Hurt, humiliation, shame. Contempt for my father. I have seen him thrice in the past 15 years and not at all in the past 10 years. He is out of my life. Also, lack of trust in men. I am happily married, but quietly keep an eye on DH. Oh, and I was a cheater myself for a while because my attitude was that you have to get men before they get you. I am past that now.[/quote]

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