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[quote=Anonymous]My mom told me about my dad's affair. It wasn't the affair per se that damaged me- it was that I was dragged into the middle of their divorce conflict. I know both of them contributed to the downfall of their marriage and an affair was only a symptom, not a cause. Both were abusive towards each other and their kids, except my dad eventually stopped while mom never did, and I don't blame my dad for seeking affection outside the marriage. If I had the option of parents having affairs but keeping me out of their conflict, vs no affair but putting me in the middle of the conflict, I'd choose the first option. [/quote]
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