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[quote=Anonymous]Have been in a long term affair (3 years) with a wonderful man.  He recently left his wife and wants to be with me "legitimately."  I am so in love with him and very badly want to leave my DH.  But I can't because my DH is a nice, loving partner.  I just have no romantic feelings towards him and don't know that I ever really did.  But that is another discussion and a mistake I made many moons ago.  Also, I have kids.  And while finances aren't an issue if we divorce, obviously it will tear their world apart going from a "seemingly" happy family to two houses.

Let this be a warning to others thinking about an affair, especially an emotional one (which most women seem to have), it isn't worth the heartache in the end.  I am now keenly aware of what I'm missing and will miss my entire life.  And for all those that say I'm just in the affair fog, nope, I'm not.  I am not thinking all would be perfect with AP if we were "really" together, blending families would suck, learning to live with someone new would be annoying, etc. [/quote]

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