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[quote=Anonymous]DW here, married 3 years, 1 DC. Got married because of accidental pregnancy even though we were having problems and were getting ready to break up. We lost the baby and in our grief decided to have another one (dumb). He works and I'm a SAHM because he claims work won't give him the flexibility for kid pickups/drop offs/sickness. We spend our evenings apart, we don't kiss, have sex maybe once a month (and just to get him to stop bugging me, it's been over a year since I've actually enjoyed it with him), have to spend time apart on weekends because by Sunday we are ready to rip each other's throats out. I've given him the green light to seek sex outside our marriage, but I don't think he has yet. A lot of resentment on both sides. I've offered him a divorce and even to sign a post-nup so I won't get much money from him, but he said no. We tried marriage counseling for the first year of marriage, which helped a little, but not much.

Has anyone in this situation been able to salvage things? I'd like to, but I'd also like to have another kid, so if things aren't going to get better I'd like to split up so I can find someone I can have a good marriage with. if you were able to fix things, what did you do?[/quote]

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