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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not sure which is the right forum for this so move it if necessary. How have people dealt with inviting all the kids in the class vs only some kids to their major events? I can't imagine inviting 90 kids right off the top to a party and my D.C. Isn't friends with them all, of course, but also don't want people to feel left out. Advice welcome. And if anyone has discovered a good forum for discussing bar/bat mitzvah issues, I'd love to be directed to it. Thanks![/quote]

A good rule of thumb is if your are going to invite more than 1/3 to 1/2 of the class, invite everyone.  In DD's case, we invited about 15 people from school.  There were 600 in the 7th grade.   [/quote]

OP, the good rule of thumb is to not listen to others rules of thumb and just have your DC invite who they want to invite whether it is 10 or 40.  Stop the PC bullshit of hurting people's feelings.  Why should only a handful or everyone including basic strangers, mean kids, or people that hate your child be invited.  Who do they want to celebrate with?  Write it down.  THE END.  And don't you start with, oh but I am friends with your soccer friend's mom so maybe we should invite him too.  [/quote]

A good rule of thumb is to be sensitive to others.  You are not.  Clearly.  [/quote]

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