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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im sorry, op.   A dysfunctional family history is a hard thing to live with.   I'm sure it's a lot to take in and try to make sense of.   The best thing you can do is break the chain and create a better and more sensible life for yourself and whatever children you may have.

If you haven't tried it yet, I might recommend some therapy to deal with your father's abandonment.  It's interesting that your thread title says you feel like you never knew your grandmother, but from reading your post, I got the sense you have some frustration that really it's that your grandmother didn't know you - she didn't understand your sense of loss or your struggles to reach adulthood without financial support.

I think there's a good bit to unpack in all this, and therapy may be a good setting for it.  [/quote]

Thank you for your reply. I am open to therapy. I have tried it in the past and had a slightly bad experience with therapist, but I'm willing to give it another shot. My dad has been a jerk this year and we haven't spoken in like 6 months now. He is everything he is because of his seriously spoiled upbringing by his parents. I loved my grandma, but I hate the way she raised my dad. Now that she is gone, it feels like all the dysfunction and lies are all out on the table in plain sight if that makes sense. [/quote]

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