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I know I need to get some regular babysitters to help me but my husband wants us to meet the babysitter together and obviously that has been a challenge.
There are weeks when it is better and that’s good. But there are also weeks where I hardly ever see him and neither do the kids.
Oh and he wants another baby. I just can’t.
I was putting my younger child to bed last night and started crying because I always imagined reading to our kids together at night and maybe that happens once a month. And it’s just sad. 
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Your DH is 100% the problem here. He doesn't get to dictate that you can't hire help without him and then be unavailable. Why is his need to meet the babysitter more important than your need to get some relief with a babysitter since you can't through him? Hire a babysitter!!

And there's a bunch of other stuff you need to work out with him as well. But start with a babysitter so that you can go out for an evening or just take a bath or whatever.[/quote]

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