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Reply to "I feel like having a baby ruined my marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have suggested counseling and I'm in counseling myself right now for postpartum mood issues. My birth was traumatic and I'm dealing with health issues as a result which has made this all the more difficult. I have brought it up but DH says the only problem is me and i just need to fix myself. He refuses to acknowledge that he plays an equal role in our relationship problems which is why I don't know how we move past this. [/quote] For now, keep going on your own. Work on your own side of it and see what happens. Assuming things don't change (or at least not enough), then you can come back to him and point out that you've been counseling for X amount of time and things aren't getting better, so maybe it really is a marriage issue you both need to address together. If he still refuses, then you'll have some bigger decisions to make, but at least you'll have the support of your therapist to help you make them.[/quote]
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