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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I read entitled MILs posting on here it makes me very sad since it reminds me of my situation. I met and fell passionately in love with my fiancé 5 years ago. He was handsome, sweet and smart. Over the first year that we dated, I recognized that there may be some red flags here as he did. It introduce me to his family. I insisted he should and he does and it's a disaster. His mother has a history of scaring away his girlfriends and is controlling and has no concept of boundaries with her children. I tip toes around for the last few years being nice and polite and trying my best and hoping they'd accept me but when he proposed after 4 years of us dating, his family said it was " too soon" and didn't talk to us for a week. When we visited them in the months following no one in the family talked to us about the wedding planning. When I brought it up I was told why the rush? We need to save our money and go on a vacation instead! It's been 5 years of bull shit. I am 30 and I am so sad because I could've been married into a nice family had I been dating someone else. [b]I feel like I wasted my time trying to put up with people who wouldn't accept me.[/b][/quote] Well, it's not their fault, is it? It sounds like you're about to choose a lot more years in misery, so what's the point of your post?[/quote]
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