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[quote=Anonymous]Hi there. I've been divorced for four years after nine-year relationship and have been re-navigating dating waters mostly via OKCupid. A large part of our divorce was from my realizing that my ex and I were terrific friends but I was not sexually attracted to him (there were definitely other major factors, but this was one).

I've only had one post-divorce relationship so far. Had explosive amazing chemistry but not much else I appreciated about the guy (ended amicably, and I was happy for the chance to discover I'm still totally capable of enjoying these connections). I've just started seeing someone who I enjoy a lot, and we spent a few dates together before our first kiss. No fireworks on my end, but I still look forward to seeing him again. I'm chilling out and seeing where things go, but am wondering if sparks ever happen later for folks down the line. Anyone have experiences to share?

I find online dating so tough because there's no way to predict physical attraction - it's been a great tool for making friends so far. I sometimes have terrific chemistry with people I should never, ever date, though, so I'm seeking a balance. Don't want to end up in another long term platonic relationship with a best friend.

Thanks :)

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