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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is tough one, op.  I think you have every right to ask sibs to help care for your mother in every way.  Your letter is fine but, I hestitate because letters or emails are not always well received.  Are you closer to one sibling over another?  Can you have a phone conversation or see them in person?  Explain how you are feeling and what mom needs.  My mom was one of seven and she and another sister did the heavy lifting.  She tried to get siblings involved ( some gave money but, her mom wanted visits) but, things never changed unfortunately.

In my own life, my sister left the family in part so she wouldn't have to deal with mom getting older.  So, it is just me and my other sib.  Sorry you are going through this.  I would try but, don't expect too much.  Sometimes I have found that those not pulling their weight will take offense and really pull back.

The way I deal with it is to think to myself I am showing my children how to treat family members.

Good luck![/quote]

Thanks-- good perspective! [/quote]

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