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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I wish I could rewind time to an hour ago before I found this. My heart is aching. I am not a troll. My dad has loans because my parents lived way above their means and had too many kids (5) while alsohelping out with some of my siblings' student loans. They are underwater on their house and already in a bad place. [/quote]

Forward the email and let your mom decide what she wants to do about it.  She might choose to ignore it and pretend that she never saw it.  She might choose to get counseling with her husband and try to save their marriage.  She might consult with a divorce attorney to figure out how to best protect herself from an impending divorce.  But do not try to decide these things for her.  She is the one who will have to live with this.

Dad was careless and that carelessness comes with consequences.  Op this is not your burden.  Expecting you to keep this knowledge a secret or for you to make it all better for your mom is not fair or realistic.

This mess is between your parents and it is up to them to handle it.  I am really sorry that this has happened.[/quote]

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