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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am an Indian woman and I find it slightly embarrassing that myself, my sister and our 3 close friends have all always exclusively dated and wound up marrying white preppy men.

Yes of course if you ask us why, we'll say, " love is color blind!" But somehow I can't help but wonder at the underlying self-racism that must be deeply seated in each of our psyche. It's not like we were all born here. We each immigrated to the U.S when old enough to know our roots and culture. I am very happy in my relationship and so are the rest of the women I reference, but sometimes I look at photographs of the pairs of us and cringe.[/quote]

Yes. You are right to cringe. Something was off. You were either running to or from something. Figure it out why so it does not wreck your marriage or spill over to the next generation. I do believe you could have found a match out one of the hundreds of millions of Indian men. [/quote]

Don't listen to this person, they are nuts.

Expecting women to marry within their race is so sexist and creepy. Especially since it's seen as a positive for men to marry outside their race- a black man with a white woman, a white man with an Asian woman, etc.

You are overthinking this. Nobody else cares who you marry. [/quote]

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