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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just got a raise to $400k (from $200k) Spouse now wants to stay home, but we don't have much in retirement accounts or college funds for kids yet Also have elderly parents we are helping to support I'm thinking we aren't financially ready Thoughts?[/quote] How old are your children? What Ypres of activities do they do? Do you and your spouse have close to a 50/50 routine at home? Or is your spouse the default parent because you work more hours? For example, do you pick up from daycare or just do drop offs? How many awake hours of the day are you home during the weekdays and how many hours a day is your spouse? Do you outsource other duties or do you split fairtly evenly? How much does your spouse currently make? what have you saved for retirement (do either of you have a pension)? What have you saved for college? With aging parents, time frequently becomes an issue too. They may need more non-financial support that require more time commitments. E.g. If they are hospitalized someone competent should be with them every day. [/quote]
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