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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he have evidence that he was supportive?  Emails? Cards? Anything?

My XH was an abusive jerk who hit me multiple times, yet when it came to divorce I wanted to do it seamlessly and with no drama.  However, he had me served alleging I physically abused him.  I had emails saved where he apologized for the stuff he did so he had no leg to stand on.  I'm sorry your brother is going through this.  It's awful. [/quote].

OP, heed this post. Your brother is probably too terrified and devastated right now to think about it but he truly needs to get any material he can to show his support for her "career" and he needs to get a tough, experienced lawyer who will fight this. I do not think you're too involved--others are being snarky and rude to say that. As his sister you may need to help him not panic and ensure his lawyer is tough and you might need to help him hunt down whatever materials his lawyer says he needs. His ex wants to crush him financially for the rest of his life; his attorney may need him to produce witnesses who will speak about how he supported her emotionally through her MBA, how she pushed to do the degree far from him, etc.

What a horrible, greedy thing to do. I would wager that her parents back home are prompting her to do this too, so the benefit financially from her divorce or because they actually believe her sob story.[/quote]

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