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[quote=Anonymous]Married man trying to end attraction to married coworker. Long ago she initiated friendship with me but other than a few flirty statements like she found me interesting or that she ran my fanclub, nothing made me feel uncomfortable. I found her attractive but I did not feel anything more than normal coworker friendliness toward her. However, I quickly became the male cliche: facing normal stress at work and home, I became flattered by her occasional praise, including when she would tell me she wishes we could see each other more often. I don't work in the same office as her and see her maybe twice a year. I do not think she feels anything toward me other than, maybe at  most "he's decent looking," but since she told me that she found me attractive I have not been able to think clearly. It is affecting my entire day and night. I love my wife and am not going to make this worse than I already have. But I don't know if I should cold turkey cut this woman out of my life or tell her the embarrassing truth that I got too emotional about our friendship? I know I'm a cliche male and that for sure my wife and this woman and her husband deserve better. I need advice on how to get my thoughts under control.[/quote]

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