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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you ever have the leavel of affection you think you want? And I don't mean the first month of dating or whatever. With the time line it reads like the affection left 5 years ago but you got married 3 years ago. Why? Do you want more intimacy? Does he? Nothing wrong with staying where you are with him if you are ok with it and he is. Could be two low drive people. But if you want more or if he wants more and you two can't find a way to that then that'll be a problem. [/quote]

OP here: we did for the first 3ish years. I knew the affection was tapering, but I truly didn't think it would get to this level. I want more intimacy, but I also realize I have a good thing going and I don't want to mess it up for the sake of holding hands and kisses and calling to say "I love you." We're both ok with the amount of actual sex, but it would be nice for him to treat me like he did before. I try with him, I will touch his hand or try to hug him by it largely annoys him. I don't do very much of that any more. I guess my question is: if someone did stay in this kind of marriage, did it turn out okay? [/quote]

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