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Reply to "I get asked constantly when/why I'm not having a second"
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[quote=Anonymous]I am struggling with secondary infertility too and seriously get asked when we are having a second at least once a week - by colleagues at work, my mom friends on occasion, random moms at the park, my family members. I have an almost 5 year old so it seems like people are concerned I am missing the window vs. thinking I must be happy with just one. I know many of them ask innocently but I don't understand why anyone needs to inquire ever about people's plans for having one, two, three or 500 kids. The reality is that when you ask someone when/if they are planning to have a first or another child, there are really one of three reasons they don't currently have that child - they don't want one, they can't, or they aren't ready/just started trying. So why bother asking at all when any of those answers are awkward to give?[/quote]
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