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Reply to "I get asked constantly when/why I'm not having a second"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not about you. We had fertility issues and ended up both being in our late 40's when we had twin boys (who are now 6). We were already very old to begin with (part of why we were willing to implant two, we got two kids before we got even older and we were quite happy to have two) and due to medical issues (my wife is a transplant patient and on immuno-suppression which would be very dangerous for a fetus) we used a surrogate. We are in our 50's with two preschoolers, old enough to be our children's grandparents and it's known that my wife has had medical issues and we STILL get asked repeatedly if we're going to have more children or try for a girl. We just answer "Two and through" (same as "One and done.") and that we are quite happy with the family we have. I don't entertain any further questions on this topic if they come, but most people are willing to move on when I say that.[/quote]
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