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[quote=Anonymous]Well, I don't know the tone of how you spoke to your son but personally I would reflect and make sure I didn't say anything to make him feel like he was at fault for not speaking up. I had things happen to me as a child that I never told my parents about because I was sure I would get a "But why didn't you" lecture. Some acknowledgement to your son that it can be hard to speak up might be helpful. And, yes, end their relationship. But the question that remains is whether the other child is safe. I know what he did to your son was upsetting, but he learned it somewhere and he should not have. I am concerned if the dad's response ends with scolding him for "acting that way" an opportunity may be missed to help a child who has possibly been abused or is being abused. Do you feel comfortable following up with the parents and letting them know you are concerned about their son?[/quote]
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