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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm starting to feel like I'm letting this friend down because I can't be what she wants me to be[/quote] Op ~ what you're probably being is disingenuous Something you have done has given her this impression, this impression of BFFs. Maybe you give a lot for short periods (and then cool-off which makes you feel guilty) Try to even out the contact. How often to you want to see her, talk to her? You decide. But when you are together, give of yourself, all-in when you are together. If you can't do that, she needs to know you aren't really a friend to her. And never beg-off on plans with her w/the excuse of being overwhelmed, sick, stressed or under some emotional turmoil - this is unfair. Unfair because a good person will feel sorry for you and think, more than ever, you need a friend to stick by you. It makes the relationship even further lopsided. And is just cruel.[/quote]
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