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[quote=Anonymous]Call him out more directly on thinking its fair to literally have picking up shit after him. The book How to not hate your husband after having kids has some good approaches for that. If you work more - could you use that money to outsource more? Get a cleaning service, buy more prepared foods, etc? I'd take a 2 prong approach to this 1) Call him out on the egregious behavior and communicate it is a matter of respect and must end 2) Both acknowledge that coming home from a full day of work to be on your own with 3 kids sucks. Taking care of 3 kids all day to have to use your evening hours to work sucks. Trying to fit in house cleaning etc sucks. And work together on how to lighten the collective load AND commit to doing a good job on the things that remain on each of your plates[/quote]
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