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[quote=Anonymous]I will say this OP. A suggestion I had for my XH, when I was in your space, was for us to do a "nesting" separation. Basically, we would find a room rental nearby perhaps someone from crags list, etc. and would rotate out of being separate. There were conditions that would support us having the separation to see things from a different perspective, and to encourage our reconciliation. For example, I suggested that we 1) give it a 90-day trial, 2) Make sure that we went to weekly couples and individual counseling, 3) Have at least 1 date night for ourselves a week, 4) Rotate responsibilities for the children. Unfortunately, he was not willing, and eventually I just had to go. It was a much more painful process. I definitely waffled, and when I got to the point of no return, I never changed back. Try to love again. Truly. Respect the commitment of your marriage. But try your best to ensure that both of you are doing it in the best way you can. Good luck.[/quote]
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