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[quote=Anonymous]I'm curious about how they treated dh and how they treated you over the years. Did you not like visiting them because they treated you poorly or because it was chaotic? My family is a mess. They're not bad people individually, but together, they can't get along and they're awful. Dh and I were talking about it recently, and was explaining how it's not that he ever fears anyone intentionally harming our children, but he worries through their bad choices the children will become collateral damage. Like if they have to witness a bad argument between my parents. He said that's why he doesn't like the kids to visit often. They're my family and I see when they change and do better. I see the good intentions. He sees history as a predictor for future behavior. [/quote]
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