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Reply to ""the victim of the affair is not always the victim of the marriage""
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[quote=Anonymous]I think when things like this quote circulate, without the full context of her work, that some of her thinking on affairs is unrepresented. For instance, she thinks that the emotional component can often come from within the cheater, without that much bearing on the spouse (e.g. the classic midlife crisis affair). She also talks about how people in happy marriages cheat. She says that, prodoxically, closer marriages can make for worse sex, because some element of desire and novelty needs to be present in order to have a truly hot time. Perhaps that's why many cheated on spouses have success with "the 180" tactic of not being so dutiful and available. [/quote]
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