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Reply to ""the victim of the affair is not always the victim of the marriage""
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[quote=Anonymous]If you watch her full Ted talk, she explains what she means by it. She says that sexual infidelity is only one way to deeply hurt a spouse, and that most affairs actually have an emotional component. She doesn't necessarily consider the "victim of the affair" to have a higher moral standing than the cheater, who might have been a victim of their spouse's indifference, emotional unavailability, and so on. It's quite a departure from the Satan Vs. Saint Cheated Upon dialogue that is pervasive in DCUM discussions of infidelity. I'm glad to see Esther Perel becoming more mainstream. [/quote]
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