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[quote=Anonymous]I sort of get where you are coming from but agree with other posters that DH is doing nothing wrong in this scenario.

My fiancé also has several hobbies that he is passionate about that take up a lot of time and money (e.g., a side business, investing, rugby, etc.) I am more like you. My pastimes are reading, going to the movies, hangi out with friends and family.

However, this never causes an issue because I can spend as much time talking about the latest book I am reading, what is going on with my friends and what is going on at work as he does talking about his hobbies. (And he talks about them a lot.)

I am wondering if the root of the problem is that you feel embarrassed or "less than" because of how you choose your free time. And you are letting that color your conversations and relationship with DH. There was definitely a period at the beginning of my relationship where I wished my hobbies were more interesting etc but then I got over it.

If so, work on you OP! Then this DH issue will resolve itself. (Unless you think he is the one who wants you to be more interesting but that does not seem to be the case)[/quote]

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