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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is an avid hobbiest who has lots of things he's passionate about.. I am not. I have lots of things I like but most of them don't take up much room. Lately it feels like all of his hobbies are taking up all of our time and money, and just take up so much space in our heads and conversations. I am growing resentful but it's really about, well what about me? What do I get? I'm not a maryter but there's nothing I can think of that I can claim to tip the balance back to myself a bit and the things I like. the things I like--hanging out as a family, reading, seeing friends-- i have plenty of. None of it is an activity hobby though, which his things are, so it feels so uneven. [b]I know if I asked for anything he'd be super into it and supportive. But I honestly can't  think of anything I want to do with my free time outside of what I do now. [/b]But resentment is starting to grow nonetheless! How do I get over myself?[/quote]

I'm honestly struggling to understand this. You basically just admitted that he would be supportive of you wanting to do stuff, but you don't actually want to do anything. And you apparently haven't even brought it up.

What is he supposed to do?

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