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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son has been friends with this boy since kindergarten. The boy recently lost his dad, day of the funeral I saw my son kiss the other boy on the cheek and hold his hand. When he was over here yesterday they were holding hands again and [b]when I left for work this morning they were in bed together [/b]and  he had his arm around him.

Both boys are  16 so it's not as though dating is unexpected. I'm also not homophobic I made a point not to be, as I was raised with that hate and didn't want that in my son's life, My question is why hasn't he told me?

He had a girlfriend  last summer and earlier this year and I knew about them.

Obviously, he hasn't said anything for a reason, so is there a way to mention this without making things awkward?[/quote]

Why does he need to tell you explicitly?  Maybe he hasn't accepted it himself yet -- or doesn't want to commit to the idea yet.

But, what really sticks out to me is that your son is sleeping with another kid and you just go off to work?  That would not be o.k. in my house regardless of the gender.  But, if it happened in your house, then maybe he thinks he already told you by his actions and your tacit awareness.[/quote]

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