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[quote=Anonymous]OP, are you the oldest? Are you a people-plesaer. Speaking from my own experience, I was a high academic achiever, went to the best schools, and always did well in school and in my career. I was always a people-pleaser and measured my success based on other people's guidelines and expectations. I didnt'/don't know how to carve out a space for myself, I struggle to take risks, etc. My brothers and husband on the other hand, who struggled academically, are much better at this. Maybe it's just their nature. Maybe it's because they are guys. Maybe it's because they didn't succeed in traditional ways early and realized they needed to find and determine their own measurements and terms of success. I've tried learning from them because being the teacher's pet A+ student can only take you so far. It doesn't work after age 22 basically.[/quote]
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