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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Take her goods and don't tell mom. [/quote] OP here - I've heard that from more than one source, which was surprising. But I'm curious; do you propose that I just take the stash and not talk to her? Several friends have suggested that I just take it and not say anything, which is not in my parenting nature. I think a calm, understanding discussion is reasonable. Thanks for the reply...[/quote] Different poster, but I think that's a terrible idea, go with your approach instead. If you don't say anything, either she assumes she just lost it and it has no impact on her behavior, or she thinks you might have taken it and then becomes an anxious mess waiting for the other shoe to drop (and then when it doesn't, goes right back to what she was doing before). Don't be passive aggressive, model good adult behavior by addressing it with her calmly but firmly in whatever way you choose.[/quote]
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