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I'm sorry you feel this way, OP.

This is why I hate the current coverage of transgenderism. The media makes it seems like so many people are coming out and modifying themselves, that everyone is going to welcome them with open arms, etc. Perhaps as it did with homosexuals in the past - I wasn't living in this country at that time so I don't know.

I never imagined that coming out would lead to an easy life. Easier than the previous life? Perhaps if the person in question has been suffering greatly from hiding his or her identity, but not necessarily.

I'm going to say something that's perhaps not true and terribly ignorant, so I apologize in advance: I get the feeling that with increasing media coverage, teens who are feeling isolated may be encouraged to "come out" as X, Y, Z, without actually having suffered from a gender identity crisis in the past (an identity crisis, certainly, but not particularly gender-specific), and that this trend catches them at an age when they are taken seriously but are not self-knowledgeable enough to really weigh the consequences of their decision.

There is so much fluidity in identifying oneself. I wish we could do away with labels and coming out and all the big hoopla and just live our lives.
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