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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Married 20 years also. 
Totally normal, I do it and I don't even hide it from my wife; I told her I was going to build a Kate Beckinsale shrine in my office. Crushes are normal, I know she gets them from time to time and we tease each other about it. 
Crushes add energy to our lives (certainly our sex life) and are a reminder of what keeps the world spinning when decades long monogamy feels a little bland sometimes.

Btw: I've never been unfaithful and I don't think she has either, I'd never cheat but we both seem to love to daydream and look. [/quote]

This is the OP-thanks for the feedback. That's cool that you and your wife are able to be open and tease each other. My husband gets uptight about it and as a result I feel like these little crushes/attractions are something I need to hide from him (he doesn't like it if I mention that a male celebrity is good looking-I learned many years ago that it bothers him so I don't say anything). I don't get it as I find hearing who he thinks is attractive (celebrities-not every day life people...I don't really want to hear about that lol) entertaining but for whatever reason he doesn't like to talk about it. He comes from a very strict, very religious family and I wonder if that's where it comes from. I agree-crushes add energy to our sex life (at least on my end). A little extra energy is needed when you've been with someone monogamously for such a long time. [/quote]

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